In 2017, I was running a local website on my own dedicated server in a professional data center. FreeBSD. Installed by me remotely. Maintained carefully by me. No other human users than myself. I was the only one with SSH access or indeed any kind of admin access to the machine.
One day, I got an e-mail from my watchdog script which was constantly inspecting the access log for the sshd. I had made it e-mail me immediately whenever a login attempt (successful or not) was not 100% certain to be me.
I got very upset when I read the hostname and noticed that it was not my ISP. However, it was still a local ISP, only not the one I had. I do not remember whether the IP address belonged to my actual ISP, but I think that may have been the case. (More details follow.)
By my reasoning, it would be far more likely for somebody to compromise my machine from across the world rather than just logging in from a consumer ISP nearby. I would have been certain that it was a compromise if the successful login attempt was made from shadyisp.ru
or something. Of course, they could simply have used a compromised local (to me) PC to proxy themselves through, but still, the fact that it was local made me unconvinced that I had truly been compromised.
Also, there were no failed sshd login attempts prior to it (or at all, ever, basically), so it was clearly not a brute-force attack. The username was non-standard and the password extremely long and complicated. If they deleted the contents of the log, they did it unbelievably, impossibly quickly. And if so, they left the successful one... which would make no sense. Unless the entire point was to just mess with my mind...
At the time, I freaked out and spent hours looking through and comparing some sort of logs. I don't remember exactly what those were, or what I found, but something (other than pride and wishful thinking) eventually convinced me that, yes, this was indeed me, because the IP address and/or other data matched up. But still, the hostname was from a different local ISP... How is that even possible?
I stupidly did not save any notes to myself about this, nor the logs or the hostname/IP address of the potential compromiser. Only years later have I thought back about this and again become uncertain: maybe it was actually a compromise after all, and my reassuring conclusion back then was false? Maybe I was so ashamed of being server-compromised for (to the best of my knowledge) the first time in my life, that I convinced myself in spite of this "indisputable proof"?
I kept running the machine for quite some time after, and did not notice anything odd whatsoever. No deleted or corrupted data. No further logins. No 100% CPU usage. No blackmail or mocking e-mails linking me to a download archive of my entire server contents. Which of course says very little; maybe they had somehow figured out the username/password by some entirely different means and then just made one attempt to see if they could log in, they could, and then just left forever, content that they were able to do this?
What could possibly explain this "freak occurrence"? Sorry for not giving more info, but this is all I remember.