I am connected to my router and I want to know if it is a possibility to sniff a data from a router that is over my router?
You cannot passively sniff packets that aren't passing through the part of the network you control, no.
However, attackers sometimes use a related kind of attack, where they compromise either the router or the hosts in the target network to make them send packets where they shouldn't. Then they can be passively sniffed.
How to sniff data from an upstream router?
It is a bit like tracking the comings and goings of your neighbours and their guests on the first floor, while you live in an apartment on the second floor.
Technically you cannot. No way. Nada. This problem, as it stands, is unsolvable. No solutions.
But maybe you can change the problem a little bit?
convince the router to echo traffic towards your host ("virtual promiscuous interface", "remote packet inspection" and so on). It is the equivalent of bribing the apartment block's doorkeeper so that he phones you as soon as someone enters the door at ground level. Since routers can't easily be bribed, you need an administrator access on the router.
confuse matters and make the relevant host(s) believe that whoever they seek on the upstream router is actually you. This is the equivalent of exchanging the DNS name tags on the door bell so that your neighbours' guests sound your door. Then you have to reroute the packets on the correct route and hope nobody smells anything fishy. It helps if you have to deal with terminal alcoholics.
maybe you aren't interested in the exact details but in some other rough measure ("they're partying again!"). In that case it is often the case that whatever happens upstream can be gleaned or guesstimated downstream; average packet delay may vary, some forged MAC queries evoke different responses, and so on. You could call the lift every five minutes, when it doesn't answer it means someone is using it; it's not a guest of yours, so it's your neighbours'. Similarly, not in all routers but in several (better if cheapo ones), the downstream link under stress will behave differently depending on whether there is also traffic from upstream (expensive routers will shoulder whatever you throw at them without the least revealing twitch). Of course such behaviour isn't likely to go unnoticed.
tap the neighbours' apartment. Which is similar to the "bribe the router" case except this is even worse, now you need to install malicious code into the upstream router in order to tap its traffic. Such code exists for many routers, so if you're on the defensive side of the question - is there anyone who isn't? - you must contemplate the possible risk. A well-cared-for, well-maintained, modern router will minimize this risk. Changing the default access (if appropriate) on the router should have been the first priority after its purchase.
Monitoring the upstream router statistics and vital signs will go a long way towards identifying possible anomalies. Some routers also allow downloading the configuration from a secure address, so that it may be hashed and fingerprinted periodically.